(Just because you have lived through a lot doesn’t mean you are old. Don’t say, “Why, in my day…,” because today is your day, too. Doctor Frank Crane never caught—–)
THE OLD-AGE DISEASE
Boston, said the funny man, is not a locality; Boston is a state of mind. To those who have experienced Boston this is a truth that needs not be proved.
With equal accuracy it may be said that Old Age is not a number of years, it is a state of mind.
It has been observed that a woman is as old as she looks, and a man is as old as he feels; as a matter of fact, both are as old as they think.
There is no need of anybody growing old. For age is entirely a disease of the soul, a condition of ill health, which with reasonable caution may be avoided. It is no more necessary than measles, which the world once thought every one ought to have; now we know better.
The human being begins existence as a vigorous animal, whose body naturally weakens with time and finally perishes. The body runs its course, “ripes and ripes, and rots and rots,” like an apple, or any other organized growth of matter. Hence of course there is a decrepitude of one’s frame.
But this is not at all true of the mind. All things in nature, from mushrooms to oaks, from insects to elephants, and even mountains and suns and systems, have their periods of growth, maturity, and decay. The mind, however, has no such law. It is the “one exception” as Mark Hopkins called it.
And the mind is the real man. And the mind can be as young at ninety as it is at twenty-one.
In asking ourselves what is it that makes youthfulness, we discover the answer to be that it consists in three things.
Work, Growth, and Faith. So long as life functions in these three ways it is young. When any or more of these elements fall off, we are old.
By work is meant an active participation in the interests of human kind. Notice how the boy cannot be idle, he wants to be at something, he burns to play the game.
Idleness or aloofness is the essence of growing old. The business man who “retires” and devotes himself to doing nothing is committing suicide.
John Bigelow recently died at the age of ninety-five, and up to the last retained his interest in affairs.
It is work that keeps men young, more than play. No man should give up selling dry-goods if that is his life business, unless he has found some other business equally congenial and interesting.
I know a woman of eighty, mother of eleven grown children, who is as young as any of them, for she declines to be shelved.
The way to stay young is to keep in that game.
Secondly, growth. That is to say, mind-growth. Let the mind be always learning, alert for new truth, eager for new accomplishments.
It is when one’s intellect closes, ceases to learn, and becomes an onlooker that old age sets in. How many old people impress you as beyond teachableness? They have settled everything, religion, politics, philosophy.
You can’t teach an old dog new tricks, but because he will not learn new tricks is exactly why the dog is old.
It is when one takes up the study of Greek at seventy or at eighty begins to investigate psychology, that his mind breathes Spring air.
As long as a mind is teachable, open and inquiring, it is young.
There ought to be special schools for people of sixty and over. Who goes to school keeps young.
Lastly, faith, not intellectual assent to any statement (which operation is no more to do with faith than sole-leather), but a general belief in man and things; confidence; settled, abiding courage and cheer.
Faith in one’s self, in one’s destiny, in mankind, in the universe and in Him who manages it, this is youth’s peculiar liquor.
Doubt is the very juice of senility. Cynicism, pessimism, and despair are the dust that blows from a dried-up soul.
And faith is not something over which you have no control, it is a cultivable thing, it is a habit.
So long as one keeps at work, continues to learn, and has faith he is young.
Whoever does not work, does not learn, and has no faith is old even at thirty. Old age is a state of mind.
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(John Bigelow was an author and diplomat, one of the founders of the Republican Party, was described by the New York Times on his 94th birthday as “a marvel of good health and strength for a man nearly a century old. He still takes the liveliest interest in affairs, both in America and abroad, and no one is much better posted than he on existing conditions the world over.” He died three weeks later, December 19, 1911. Actually he was 94, not 95.)
I envy Dr. Crane: many of today’s “leaders” have made dissembling and obfuscation into an art form. I often feel like I’ve been sent to the gulag, trying to obtain clear answers to clear questions