In these times when word “self-aggrandizement” appears to be an admired quality in some who are or who want to be our leaders, we want to highlight someone we find much more admirable.
Giles H. Stilwell was the president of the Chamber of Commerce in Syracuse, New York for 1929-30. When he stepped down, he had an observation for those who thought their city owed them something. No so, Stilwell said. It’s just the opposite.
My city owes me nothing. If accounts were balanced at this date, I would be the debtor. Haven’t I, all these years, lived within the limits of the city and shared all its benefits? Haven’t I had the benefit of its schools, churches and hospitals? Haven’t I had the use of its library, parks and public places? Haven’t I had the protection of its fire, police and health department? Haven’t its people, during all this time, been gathering for me, from the four corners of the earth, food for my table, clothing for my body, and material for my home? Hasn’t this city furnished the patronage by which I have succeeded in my business? Hasn’t it furnished the best friends of my life, whose ideals have been my inspiration, whose kind words have been my cheer and whose helpfulness has carried me over my greatest difficulties? What shall I give in return? Not simply taxes which cover so small a part of what I have received. I want to give more, I want, of my own free will, to say, “This is my city,” so that I can take pride in its prosperity, in the honors which come to its citizens, and in all that makes it greater and better. I can do this only by becoming a part of the city—by giving to it generously of myself. In this way only can I, even in small part, pay the great debt I owe.
A similar, shorter sentiment was expressed by the headmaster George St. John at Choate Academy, a prep school in Connecticut, who quoted a Harvard dean’s statement to his students, “As has often been said, the youth who loves his Alma Mater will always ask not ‘what can she do for me?’ but ‘what can I do for her?”‘ One of St. John’s students was a kid named John F. Kennedy, who made a modified version of the phrase famous in 1961.
Some might find Stilwell’s speech pretty sappy. Some might think substituting “state” or “nation” for “city” would work as well.
Something to think about in our present climate, we suppose.